When I was little, my parents used
to take me to the park almost every weekend. I am an only child, which is why I
really enjoyed being outside and playing with the children of my parents’
friends. The adults would always have barbecues, play cards and talk for hours
while us kids would run around on the grass, take baths in little ponds or play
“witches” in the woods. I used to invent many games in general and I believe
this is something that can be found in nearly everyone’s childhood. Not only is
it much fun, it also trains your sense for fantasy, your social and
organizational skills and an affinity for creating something in a practical,
“hands-on” way.
Since
I didn’t have a computer at home until the age of 11 and got my first phone on
my 14th birthday, I spent most of my childhood days getting home
from school, doing some homework and then knocking at my neighbor’s door to ask
them to come outside and play. I would only come home when it was dark and it
was time for dinner. Before I went to bed, my mother used to read for me and
later, I read myself.
I
believe that for children nowadays it is much more difficult to dodge
technology like that. A friend of mine told me about something that happened at
one of his family’s events, which left me speechless. He was playing with his
2-year-old niece for quite some time so when he was tired, he gave her a really
old nokia phone to play with – one where the screen is still black and white.
The little girl took the phone and tried to “slide to unlock”. She had seen
this action so many times at the age of two that she had internalized it and
now tried it herself. I find this story remarkable, as it demonstrates how
early the integration into the “technologized world” can take place.
Neglecting
the question, whether this is favorable or not, there are indeed some ways to
maintain a healthy relationship to nature and natural things. It starts with
the knowledge and the conscience about the importance of this matter. If our
brains are stuck to screens all day, we are soon going to be fulfilling
Thoreau’s prophecy and lose track of what is reality and what is illusion. It
is not only interesting to look up a flower’s appearance on an iPad, but it is
far more exiting to go outside and explore the beauty of that flower by finding
it on a meadow. And how about establishing a screen-free day of the week? No
phones, no tablets and no TVs. Instead, take a walk by the lake, talk about
life and top the day off with a round of monopoly.
Time
is another essential factor that must be taken into consideration. It always
seems as if these days, the day doesn’t have enough hours to do everything you
need to do. But we forget that this is a matter of perceiving things. Of
course, the velocity of the world requires us to keep up to some extent but it
is still in our hands how we handle it. Even though it may take much
tranquility and patience, that some people will probably never acquire, it is
definitely possible. If you feel like you have too much to do, try to ask
yourself, if you really need to do all of these things. We work and work until
we drop to facilitate our luxurious lifestyle - and yes, it is more luxurious
than we like to believe – and at the end of the day what do we actually get out
of it?
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